Think of it this way, though: the divisions that humans make between objects in the world is largely a linguistic one. For example, we say that the Earth is such-and-such an ecosystem with certain species occupying it. But this is more like a convenient shorthand, not a totally accurate description of reality. A more accurate description would be something like, ever-changing organisms undergo this complex process that we call evolution, and are all continually changing, so much so that the species concept is not really that clear, once you dig into it.
https://plato.stanford.edu/entries/species/
Where it really gets interesting, IMO, is when these divisions (which originally were mostly just linguistic categories) start shaping what's actually in the world. The concept of property is a good example. Originally it's just a legal term, but over time, it ends up reshaping the actual face of the earth, ecosystems, wars, migrations, on and on.
No, see what happens when apes, hyena's, and animals from dozens of other species try steal each others food.
"mine" and "yours" existed long before language.
I never under stand these kinds of statements.
Does the sun not exist until we have a word for it, did "under the rock" not exist for dinosaurs?