They don’t say it literally like that, but they say stuff that boils down to that. People who live wicked lifestyles are tolerated or even celebrated because obviously Jesus loves everybody (He really doesn’t).

"Love your neighbour as yourself"

Nothing in there about "only if they meet certain moral standards".

I do agree that celebrating people because they do things that contradict Christ teachings (most commonly for accumulating wealth) is wrong.

Everything but reading the scriptures, huh? They are much deeper than “love your neighbour” I can assure you. It’s a thick book.

I think the meaning of love in christianity is very different from what more secular people think it is. For example it does not preclude sending someone to prison. Christianity has a very well defined and categorized (sexos/eros/philia/agape) understanding of love. It is also not a feeling.

> "Love your neighbour as yourself"

That is a very important part of that understanding of the meaning of love. While it also means that you love your neighbour in any circumstance, it importantly says that you should love the neighbour in the same way you love yourself. You love yourself even when you know you are evil and should die.

The stance of the (catholic) church is that you should damn the sin and love the sinner.

While I agree with you that it is wrong, I can assure you it's quite a common stance among our 68-influenced priests, referents and teachers inside the "catholic" church. They will happily contradict the official stance of the catholic church and still claim to be true catholics (and everyone else is just from yesterday). But then again, I think that is a large reason, why church membership is shrinking drastically in my country, while in our also western neighbors it is rising again.