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Re:Our crisis is not loneliness but human beings becoming in... by dfxm12 on Friday June 20, 2025 @09:35AM (#44327613)
This is not necessarily tech driven. People are extroverted or introverted. Pre smartphone, when I was alone on the bus or subway, I always had my nose in a paper or a book. Now it's my phone or a Kobo. I didn't like and wasn't good at making small talk back then, and I don't think that has changed much. I feel like there are a lot of Seinfeld subplots built around avoiding social interaction that I really identified with.

On the other hand, I feel a lot of media is pushing us to ignore, suspect or otherwise be scared of strangers. I don't know that this is uniquely tech driven though.

Re:Our crisis is not loneliness but human beings becoming in... by em-bee on Friday June 20, 2025 @10:37AM (#44328129)
yes, but only the real introverts carry a book. everyone carries a phone enabling more people to exhibit introverted behavior.

i used to be one of those with a book. now i listen to audio books which incidentally allows me to appear more extroverted because i can make eye contact and i guess people assume i am just listening to music and am therefore approachable.