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Re:Your Manager Is Not Your Best Friend by GuardianCaveman on Tuesday June 03, 2025 @11:24PM (#44176943)
So if you have a best friend you get hired on with you at the same level do you cease to be friends?
Re:Your Manager Is Not Your Best Friend by tombert on Tuesday June 03, 2025 @11:51PM (#44177062)
That's a tough question, and it's happened before to me. It definitely makes things a bit weird for me.

If I have a prior relationship with that person, then to some extent they've already seen "full tombert" so I don't have to worry as much, but I'd be lying if I said that there wasn't a part of me that worries a little even still.

Re:Your Manager Is Not Your Best Friend by askonomm on Wednesday June 04, 2025 @05:12AM (#44178688)
Quite often it turns out that the connecting glue that held the friendship together was the shared experience of the same job. Remove that and the friendship fades away.