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by fwip on Sunday March 23, 2025 @12:39PM
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An additional truth is that straight women tend to be much less picky about physical appearance than straight men. Despite what many single men will tell you, their difficulty in finding a partner often has much more to do with their personality than their appearance.
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That has been my experience as well. The nuanced exception: online dating. During a date looks don’t matter much but getting swiped right? Being photogenic really helps. Which is not the same thing as looks but it plays into it
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by bossyTeacher on Sunday March 23, 2025 @07:25PM
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Problem with online dating is that it's designed to make users act based on the profile pictures (mostly). You notice this because in most apps the first and most prominent detail of a profile is the picture.
Online dating is like online chats, people behave differently
Hence photoshop and photography skills by observing the tricks that models do
It is a problem indeed and I decided to get good at being photogenic - comparatively to how I am built/how I look
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by fireburning on Sunday March 23, 2025 @02:46PM
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nah igor disagrees :)