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Re:Ask HN: Have you added a Pride flag in your logo? by PaulHoule on Thursday March 13, 2025 @10:35AM (#43353804)
Nothing is inclusive unless it is inclusive to the majority of people.

I have no problem with "gay", "lesbian", "bisexual", "transexual" and other identities, but I don't like LGBTQIA+ (or whatever it is today) as a label because I believe that label erases the individual identities involved. In fact, labels in general tend to obscure reality, see [1] [2] [3].

As an activist I've seen that the strategy of taking the most radical position on every issue and putting up the tallest flag just doesn't work -- people get disengaged and stop going to your protests.

When I saw "I" added to that list I was hoping it was "Incel" (talk about people who "can't be heterosexual") but, no, it is Intersex -- some Intersex people feel violated by the same surgeries that help transgender people feel whole.

I was annoyed, as a foxworker, that "two spirits" was added to this list without consulting me. I certainly do contact female fox spirits but I also contact male fox spirits too and the gender of them doesn't concern me so much as the interspecies difference. I don't see any reason why I should buy into the reductivist gender paradigm of the day or dislike the Harry Potter books any more than I did when they came out.

[1] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bisexual_erasure

[2] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Men_who_have_sex_with_men

[3] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Queer

Re:Ask HN: Have you added a Pride flag in your logo? by johng on Thursday March 13, 2025 @10:37AM (#43353833)
I'm so out of touch. This is the first time I've even heard the term Foxworker, Fox Spirits. And while I've seen the term intersex, never in this context.

I have a lot of learning to do.

Re:Ask HN: Have you added a Pride flag in your logo? by PaulHoule on Thursday March 13, 2025 @11:47AM (#43354474)
Re:Ask HN: Have you added a Pride flag in your logo? by swah on Friday March 14, 2025 @06:11AM (#43361107)
Not gonna lie it does sound like an elaborate joke even after a few re-reads. No matches for "foxworker" on Reddit...