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Re:Ask for no, don't ask for yes (2022) by ncallaway on Sunday February 23, 2025 @06:15AM (#43148490)
“After looking at all the options I think XYZ is the best path forward. Our team will implement that on June 3rd. If anyone has any concerns about this approach, please reach out before then. Thanks!”
Re:Ask for no, don't ask for yes (2022) by docmars on Sunday February 23, 2025 @06:47PM (#43154364)
I often use: "I'm open to input as we move forward on this" to suggest it's already happening, with a clear and kind invitation for feedback.

What often happens if my manager objects is the urgency of "it's already happening" will result in him wanting to pause on it, if it's important to him.

Most of the time it's "ok, sounds good" where there's a clear trust between us. Or it might result in a "ok, sounds good -- just make sure so-and-so is aware too".

Re:Ask for no, don't ask for yes (2022) by Imustaskforhelp on Wednesday February 26, 2025 @08:36AM (#43183499)
This is crazy good , thanks a lot