I select the parts, but pay the vendor or someone local to assemble and test it. Not only do they do it every week (if not every day), if some part is DoA they have others on hand to swap in and out to find out which part is the problem, but I don't, see: everything changed since I built the last one 5 years before.
[1] 2009 i7-860, 2014 i7-4790K, 2016 i7-6700K (had moved countries, didn't take the old PC, just the SSD), 2019 TR 2990WX (again had moved countries, taking just the SSD), 2024 i9-13900HX laptop (beats the TR in every way, plus sips power and is portable).
Here's a current catalogue customisable much cheaper machine from them with ECC:
https://www.adamant.com/adamant-custom-intel-xeon-e3-series-...
I bought my current PC from a company that seems pretty good, and targets gamers with medium-high budgets.
The "liquid cooled" cpu cooler died after being bumped with a vacuum, and I had to replace it.
With that one thing that I was forced to do myself, I had to learn a lot about the system that I'd already have known if I'd ordered the parts myself. Worse, they no longer had a list of the exact parts in the system on their site. I had to pull things apart to find out what they were.
I'll be making my own PC from scratch again next time.
I sort of hemmed and hawed and said ok.
When the guy came by to install it, it was kind of amazing. he opened the box quickly with a box cutter, and started unwrapping stuff. Stuff that was needed came out, extras were discarded into the lid of the box, all within about a minute.
He had a special pole with a carpet covered T at the top to help get the old rail down safely and raise the new one. He ran all the lines quickly and efficiently. Lines that were too long were wrapped around a screwdriver to form a pigtail and efficiently run them with some tension the right length.
I think it was done in ~ 20 minutes and worked right the first time.
Simply amazing to see sometime who has done it before and really knows what they're doing. Made me question every install I would ever do after that.
They did the same thing with a garbage disposal install a year or two later. ba-da-boom, done.