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Re:Show HN: I built an active community of trans people online by cynicalsecurity on Thursday January 23, 2025 @05:19PM (#42808633)
Respectful conversation involves sarcasm and satire. I hope we are not in church to avoid using those. I wasn't using aggression against the person I was replying to and my comment was pretty calm, was it? What is really flamewary and pretty rude to say is stating that trans people need an NSFW tag. If you so much want to avoid flamewars, whatever this means, you probably should have replied to that person in the first place.
Re:Show HN: I built an active community of trans people online by monktastic1 on Thursday January 23, 2025 @07:23PM (#42809392)
It's hard to discern whether you're misreading this whole thread on purpose or not. Nobody is claiming that trans content in general is NSFW, but that a certain subset of content therein, displayed openly on the site is -- which OP evidently agrees with. If you think OP is anti-trans, I don't know who you think is pro-.
Re:Show HN: I built an active community of trans people online by dang on Friday January 24, 2025 @12:52AM (#42810827)
> Respectful conversation involves sarcasm and satire

It can in some contexts! For example with friends or close colleagues, or a small group of familiars. But the context is the dominant variable. In a context like HN (a large, public, optionally anonymous internet forum), sarcasm and satire and snark are far more likely to come across as cheap attacks. That likelihood is so high that such messages should either be avoided or disambiguated enough that the median reader—someone who doesn't know you or anything about you—can still detect that you're conversing respectfully.

This sucks a bit, because it means we're all subject to a certain blandness here. But the alternative is the war of all against all, followed by scorched earth, and there isn't much of a choice.

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