Re:Ask HN: Are you unable to find employment?
by unitol on Sunday December 29, 2024 @07:48AM
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His vantage point is still that of a male.
Furthermore, these males usually have a very inaccurate understanding of how well they masquerade as women in real life, without filters and flattering camera angles.
I very much doubt he's being perceived as a woman by interviewers or colleagues.
Re:Ask HN: Are you unable to find employment?
by throwaway284534 on Sunday December 29, 2024 @03:03PM
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Much appreciated. I’m US based, but I travel a lot for work. It’s a blessing to have a wider perspective on gender roles, especially with so much of the journey now in the rear view mirror. AFAIK there’s no lower rung on the corporate ladder than a sad partially-baked trans person. Hormones are cheap but a remote tech job with a decent salary can make a transition affordable without jeopardizing your career, socioeconomic trends withstanding.
Sadly there are many ways to experience negative social expectations at work. Several of my formerly heavy-set colleagues have observed the perception of their competence being a result of their weight loss. Most of the cis men I know use a combination of testosterone, Ozempic, hair plugs, lifts in their shoes, etc.
I don’t blame them; Perception is everything.
This is very valuable information, thank you. Most of us only ever have the chance to experience the situation from the vantage point of one gender. Are you in the US, or what?