Thanks for making it clear I should treat your posts as a regurgitation of terminally online zoomer talking points from here on out.
And I lived in Connecticut too btw, but Canada was longer and more relevant since I visited a lot more of the US while living in canada.
Anybody ambitious would agree it's still far more optimal to work in a USA and build a career there first before moving to Asia as an expat to better negotiate terms. And even then, the supply of interesting jobs there is going be much less.
And Japan actually has more time off for people to enjoy the fruits of their labor too!
As far as moving goes, I wouldn’t be so sure. Plenty of people start off their career in their home country before moving to HK or Singapore or Tokyo, skipping the US entirely.
She's working in London right now and alot more happier, tbh having grown up there in HK most of my cohort have moved to US or Europe.
Tech as an expat is a bit of bubble, most of the "hard work" in building a career is achieved in the less competitive environment. Growing up there in those cities is another matter, the academic pressure and job market can be soul-crushing. If you don't get into a top university many large firms won't hire you. That's not to say similar things happen in USA, but it's relatively easier to get into Ivy League, and outside of Banking or Law most other careers are willing to give you a chance to prove yourself.
This is like saying you almost got murdered in El Salvador and that’s why you don’t go out alone in Nashville.