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Re:My Time Working at Stripe by pavel_lishin on Saturday November 02, 2024 @08:50AM (#42026095)
We had a team building exercise, that I wasn't able to attend. The person running it decided that a great ice-breaker would be for everyone to name their greatest fear.

I'm a parent. You can probably pretty easily infer what my greatest fear is.

Would I share that? Fuck no! Not only am I not particularly willing to get that intimate with a bunch of strangers, I also don't want to be a huge fucking downer. What I do want is to recognize that while you can speed-run friendship & bonding to some degree, it's fucking inappropriate to try to do so at work. It's work. I'll make friends if I make friends, but otherwise I'm out at 5, physically, mentally and emotionally.

Re:My Time Working at Stripe by dnissley on Saturday November 02, 2024 @09:38AM (#42026320)
Is it something bad happening to your kids? That seems perfectly appropriate to share
Re:My Time Working at Stripe by pavel_lishin on Saturday November 02, 2024 @10:02AM (#42026450)
I don't fucking want to think about that during a fucking team building exercise. And I don't think anyone else wants to hear that, either.
Re:My Time Working at Stripe by chinathrow on Saturday November 02, 2024 @11:46AM (#42027070)
Neither would I. I can only think of this question having any place in such a situation if you suffix it by "at work" and exclude the obvious things such as getting fired or the company going bust.