Re:Ask HN: What breakthrough helped you build and maintain b...
by bluedino on Saturday October 12, 2024 @06:47PM
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>> Doing hobbies that involve other people
This is something that doesn't really work for me. I've made a few friends through some hobbies (and we're still friends even though we don't participate in them anymore), but I think the problem is I'm not as into the hobbies as much as the other people are.
I don't want to hang out with anyone at my gym. A lot of the ____ club people are _obsessed_ with that particular thing. I have other interests than that one thing.
I find the key is being easy to talk to, and finding people who are easy to talk to.
This is something that doesn't really work for me. I've made a few friends through some hobbies (and we're still friends even though we don't participate in them anymore), but I think the problem is I'm not as into the hobbies as much as the other people are.
I don't want to hang out with anyone at my gym. A lot of the ____ club people are _obsessed_ with that particular thing. I have other interests than that one thing.
I find the key is being easy to talk to, and finding people who are easy to talk to.