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Re:Be a Thermostat, Not a Thermometer by Suppafly on Wednesday September 11, 2024 @11:40PM (#41517360)
I think you can consciously learn a skill by practicing it enough. You can choose to project positivity and like most things in life, fake it until you make it.

>feel like a form of emotional labor that can be exhausting and unsustainable

There definitely some wisdom in knowing when to draw back for your own sanity.

Re:Be a Thermostat, Not a Thermometer by deisteve on Wednesday September 11, 2024 @11:43PM (#41517373)
On one hand, I completely agree that deliberate practice and intentional positivity can be powerful tools for growth and skill-building. The 'fake it till you make it' approach can be especially helpful for building confidence and momentum.

I think the key is finding that balance between pushing ourselves to grow and being kind to ourselves when we need to rest. It's okay to take a step back, recharge, and prioritize our own well-being. In fact, that's often where the real growth happens - in the moments of quiet reflection and self-care.

Re:Be a Thermostat, Not a Thermometer by jeffhuys on Thursday September 12, 2024 @01:21AM (#41517842)
I don’t know why and I might be wrong, but (parts of) some of your comments read exactly like an LLM response, while other parts feel like you typing additional stuff “around” the response.
Re:Be a Thermostat, Not a Thermometer by dr_dshiv on Thursday September 12, 2024 @03:09AM (#41518285)
I got the same vibes, fwiw.