Re:Be a Thermostat, Not a Thermometer
by deisteve on Wednesday September 11, 2024 @11:43PM
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On one hand, I completely agree that deliberate practice and intentional positivity can be powerful tools for growth and skill-building. The 'fake it till you make it' approach can be especially helpful for building confidence and momentum.
I think the key is finding that balance between pushing ourselves to grow and being kind to ourselves when we need to rest. It's okay to take a step back, recharge, and prioritize our own well-being. In fact, that's often where the real growth happens - in the moments of quiet reflection and self-care.
>feel like a form of emotional labor that can be exhausting and unsustainable
There definitely some wisdom in knowing when to draw back for your own sanity.