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Re:Repair and Remain: How to do the slow, hard, good work of... by fsckboy on Monday August 12, 2024 @01:29PM (#41227064)
>a lot of very common situations where leaving a marriage is justified

you need to make a much more robust argument than this. In this context, this comes across as "in and out of a marriage, that should be easy, but moving house, think a little harder on it"

it might very well be true as you say that it is common, but ideally should people commonly discover "reasons" to dissolve their marriage? How about treating the period before marriage as boot camp instead of travel, sunsets, wine and roses? I have no end of travel-sunsets-wine-roses soulmates, that's easy.

Re:Repair and Remain: How to do the slow, hard, good work of... by danw1979 on Wednesday August 14, 2024 @07:45AM (#41244972)
It would be really very difficult to bootcamp the experience of actually having kids before having kids.