You suggest that naturopathic medicine is opposed to mainstream cancer treatment, but you don't suggest alternatives. What is an effective alternative to chemotherapy?
Frankly, I find your know-it-all arrogance shocking, and all that is wrong with the medicine. 90% of doctors I have worked with have the same mentality. If it's not studied, how can you come to a conclusion?
Here's one little extract to whet your appetite.
[edit: btw I am in no way advocating naturopathy, homeopathy or other well debunked shams]
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Men with early stage prostate cancer who make intensive changes in diet and lifestyle may stop or perhaps even reverse the progression of their illness, according to a new study.
The research is the first randomised, controlled trial showing that lifestyle changes may affect the progression of any type of cancer.
The research team behind the American study looked at 93 men with biopsy-proven prostate cancer who had elected not to undergo conventional treatment for reasons unrelated to this study. The participants were randomly divided into either a group who were asked to make comprehensive changes in diet and lifestyle or a comparison group who were not asked to do so.
Participants in the lifestyle-change group were placed on a vegan diet consisting primarily of fruits, vegetables, whole grains, and legumes supplemented with soy, vitamins and minerals. They participated in moderate aerobic exercise, yoga/meditation, and a weekly support group session. A registered dietitian was available for consultation, and a nurse case manager contacted the participants regularly.
Pharmaceutical companies aren't likely to invest millions studying turmeric, spirulina, chlorella, sunlight, etc. There are credible studies if you intentionally go looking for them, though.
Here are a few that may change your mind: http://jn.nutrition.org/cgi/content/full/137/1/233S http://www.annieappleseedproject.org/lifchancline.html http://bastyrcenter.org/content/view/913/
Surely you must admit that your claim that lifestyle change cannot reduce mortality rate is premature. It's only recently being studied, and with the great early results we will see many more such papers investigating the effects.
My money would be on a combination: Lifestyle change + aggressive supplementation + chemo.
"It just doesn't work" is a statement of fact. I showed you some research that refutes this (lifestyle change alone can cure in certain cases). What more do you need to change your opinion?
In any case, it sounds like the dad already made his decision, and I can understand that. Chemotherapy takes a tremendous toll of suffering, to the point that if the only alternatives were chemo and death, it's still not always an easy choice.
In general, the natural health approach is to support the body's healthiness in every way possible, such that it can do its job. Our bodies dismantle plenty of cancers each day on their own. That may seem simple, but it deserves more investigation than a cavalier dismissal for the sake of the child^h^h^h^h^h cancer patients.
So, to be clear, the alternative I'm suggesting is: Be willing to greatly change your died and lifestyle, and find a naturopathic doctor/clinic and work with them. http://www.naturopathic.org/
Depending on where you're located, you may be able to find naturopathic doctors in your community.
One of the best author's I've encountered in this space is Dr. Samuel Epstein -- http://www.preventcancer.com/about/epstein.htm who has a huge list of credentials/publications, and goes to great lengths to show why the structure of the cancer industry, including things like the American Cancer Society, at least in the US, isn't well motivated or well suited to promoting the most effective approaches.
The natural health community's approach to wellness is fairly intrusive on the normal American lifestyle. Unless you live in a city with a really good selection of restaurants, it often means cooking all your own food and drastically changing your diet. I personally avoid all of: sugar/substitutes, hydrogenated oils, MSG/yeast extract, homogonized milk, refined grains, artificial colors/sweeteners, anything where oils are heated above their smoke point. I mainly eat raw fresh produce, whole grains, and organic meat. I've come to enjoy cooking -- it's a useful skill, both pragmatically and socially. :)
Some things frequently mentioned as having anti cancer properties are maca root, and tumeric, especially when combined with black pepper. (all raw.) Some of the very high end multivitamin supplements that you find in health stores include these. Frequent sunlight without sunscreen is important too.
In general, the natural health community's perspectives on many things are often counter to mainstream medicine's positions. Be prepared to evaluate some core beliefs in undertaking this research. :)