I couldn't possibly agree with this less. My view is that "it depends." Level salaries in San Francisco and I'll consider not tipping. Until then, I'm comfortable with my choices.
I'd agree that after tipping culture is definitely established in a field, then stiffing someone is unfortunately bad, unless you can coordinate on reversing this harmful cultural norm. This is just very different from not helping to establish the harmful cultural norm, which is a positive, prosocial good; I believe you are doing the opposite of a prosocial good here, without realizing it. Of course I'm a fallible human.
Now, if you want to talk about organizing collectively beyond the individual level, to use political and market power to make structural changes that raise wages but curb tipping, well that's a different topic that's worth discussing. But, absent that, I'm going to keep tipping.
Not going to continue here.
I can see how that might be irritating. Good thing I haven't done that.
> you've twice ignored my main point that expectation of tips lowers the posted price and makes life harder for all of the drivers/servers
That's not a point. That's a claim, which you have not persuaded me to accept.
> I tried to probe for what is not coming through to you this third time, with another case where the legibility of a cost is shifted to no benefit.
If only you had been clear that that's what you were doing, I would've told you that what's not coming through is the casual relation between tips and wages. You seem to believe tips necessarily suppress wages. I see no particular reason to believe that's true.
> Not going to continue here.
Suit yourself.