I have seen a lot of selective application of HN rules over the (many) years. My 2 cents.
We try not to delete posts that got replies, because doing so would be unfair to the other commenters in the thread. What I've done so far is reassign it to a random user ID, so it's as if you'd used a throwaway account to post it and there's no link to your main account. Does that work?
Now you’re active participant in a cover up. They want to delete something, edit something? Fine. The controls are there. Everyone knows that. But that’s not what this is. This is taking extraordinary action to gaslight and coverup. That’s what’s trash. It’s the secrecy. It’s changing of the archive. That’s what trash.
In all my decades of dealing with public forums, I have never seen this as something done in a reputable forum, outside of a court order.
It’s a betrayal of trust. The fact that you’re not defending it on the merits, but rather that it’s supposedly open to all that knew about the secret door is just the chef’s kiss of abuse of power. If I was asked to do this, I would quit.
Dang, every time you do this, it shows contempt to everyone on this forum. It’s absolute trash. It is bad, and you should feel bad. But of course, you don’t feel bad about doing it. You feel good about it.
That doesn't mean we don't care about protecting users with privacy and other concerns—we certainly do, and like I said we take care of these every day. We just try to do it with more precise tools than wholesale deletion.
It's basically a tradeoff. We're trying to balance the community interests of a public forum with the need to protect individuals. There's no perfect answer, but we're committed to both sides of it. Of the people who ask us for these things, well over 90% end up satisfied. Probably 99% actually, but I don't want to make claims I'm not sure of!
Is gnabgib an actual moderator here or did he made a bot account that does regex matching to some words to try to do backseat moderating to farm points?
His account made numerous robotic comments that missed the key context which a human would not have missed.
p.s. I'm not the sole moderator here, fortunately—I'm just the only one who posts publicly.
I personally take care of these requests every day and have gone out of my way (including spending hours writing code) to help people individually in cases where their needs were unusually complex. I can tell you for sure that whether the person is high or low status in $whoever's eyes has nothing to do with this. Often I don't even know who the person is.
Our approach to this boils down to one principle: We don't want anyone to get in trouble from anything they posted to HN. It doesn't matter who "anyone" is. On countless occasions I've deleted posts, redacted personal details, and/or randomized usernames for accounts that in fact had repeatedly abused and trolled HN. I don't rub their nose in that either—I just pretend not to have noticed. You'd be surprised how polite and thankful people can be when they need something.
I'm not surprised to see accounts like https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=40732721 making sinisterly scurrilous accusations, but you've been around here long enough to know better.
Edit: here's what I posted the last time this came up: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=26949343. It's a more complete explanation than I have time to give right now, and nothing has changed since then.