I've continued to drink alcohol in moderation for another 15 years+ without issue.
A coworker of mine had back issues, they only took him seriously when he was brought in via ambulance because he couldn't stand a year later after multiple visits to both his GP and hospital.
And they still didn't take him seriously, they were going to discharge him in a wheelchair until he pissed himself because he had lost all control of his lower body and couldn't even tell that he had to pee.
White guy, steady job and good insurance. To the doctor's it look like someone trying to get pain meds.
Edit to change tone
But it's a factor generally for women. Which doesn't assert men always get fabulous results every time, nor does it in any way "rebut" points other people already made elsewhere in this discussion.
I was just going to ignore the ridiculous pile on to my comment, but it's not stopping. Folks are blowing it out of proportion.
Which may not stop but now I'm on record with that observation.
I wish it really were that simple. I dont think it is.
Additionally, your suggestion fundamentally dismisses my main point: This is apparently a bigger issue for women than men generally.
And when men act like it's unreasonable for a woman to be aware this is a bigger issue for women and to toss that detail out there in public discussion, it's just a no win situation for women.
The people most impacted are routinely treated like they are whiners who should just shut up and accept that no one will bother to care.
And not just about gender. People of color also routinely get treated crappily for being the ones who bring up X issue when no one else will and they bring it up because they are the ones aware of it.
FWIW I hardly look at usernames and judge the comments anonymously, at least at first.
When I was a homemaker and having serious health issues, I sometimes wore a suit to see a medical professional to try to get them to take me more seriously. I used to bitch to friends that I felt like pinning a list of my academic achievements to my lapel.
"Oh, it's a homemaker. Must be stupid! Couldn't possibly have been a good student in school! Smart women all have serious careers."
Yeah, sure. That's reality./s