The big difference is that Microsoft - at least usually - confirms and owns the issues.
With Apple, it's usually just crickets... nothing in the release notes, no official statements, nothing. It's just trial and error for the users to see if a particular update fixed the issue.
The only problem is that Apple is even worse at communicating issues than Microsoft is.
[1] https://www.bleepingcomputer.com/news/microsoft/microsoft-wa...
[2] https://www.bleepingcomputer.com/news/microsoft/microsoft-fi...
[3] https://www.bleepingcomputer.com/news/microsoft/microsoft-sa...
[4] https://www.forbes.com/sites/gordonkelly/2019/06/12/microsof...
[5] https://www.theregister.com/2022/08/22/windows_10_update_kil...