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Re:Embezzlers Are Nice People (2017) by anal_reactor on Monday April 15, 2024 @02:43PM (#40044179)
> Since certain norms aren't as intuitive/automatic, it's as if everyone else is secretly playing a game with a set of unspoken barely-explained rules.

That's exactly how I feel lol biggest reason why I minimize my interaction with most of the society

Anyway, I think that people in general assume that others behave in a way similar to theirs, which works if you're average, but doesn't if you're not. You can see this when two cultures with opposing attitudes meet: both of them think "obviously I'm normal, it's them who's acting weird".

Re:Embezzlers Are Nice People (2017) by selimthegrim on Monday April 15, 2024 @05:51PM (#40046091)
See also Three Christs of Ypsilanti
Re:Embezzlers Are Nice People (2017) by strken on Monday April 15, 2024 @10:51PM (#40047927)
I think that general feeling -- of playing a game where the majority of players know the rules and you don't -- is something most people have felt at one point or other. I've certainly felt like that in foreign countries or at new jobs. Friends report a similar feeling while starting the process of buying a house, or getting married, or re-entering the dating scene.
Re:Embezzlers Are Nice People (2017) by mewpmewp2 on Tuesday April 16, 2024 @07:03AM (#40050560)
I used to feel like this when I was a teen. Now I think everyone are mostly clueless trying to make do with what they have.