I've been thinking about contributing to some open source projects, and starting a couple of things of my own, and the community aspect is a significant downside for me, and I say that as somebody who was quite active in several open source projects and things like the IETF years ago.

I'm not saying the community shouldn't be there, it's just that the barrier to entry is so low, that people can "contribute" with very little effort, that's become a significant problem as Internet usage (and acceptance of shit-posting trolls as just being a cost of anything online), so the signal/noise ratio is awful and we end up in an easy slide to controversy and spite and the good actors wanting to walk away.

I think this is why I don't do social media any more. I think it's why I'm not on the mailing lists I once was, or have interest in discord or a great many open community sites. It's just exhausting. HN, slashdot and some group chats in Signal with people I have known for many years is the closest I get to anything like that any more.

I've thought about doing some blogging without comments and a means to contact me directly another way privately. I've thought about making contributions to other projects with my only conversations being about my own commits, but that doesn't work for leading my own projects if I want to be "nice".

I think leading a project for me might involve _not_ letting others contribute to my version without clearing some arbitrary bar. No mailing list, no discord, no developer community. That doesn't feel optimal on some metrics, but it might be optimal for the metrics I care about.