The false dichotomy is that you keep referencing Arch.

No one is disagreeing "Debian is absolutely easier than Arch"

Fedora, Endavour, OpenSUSE, may be easier than Debian. (Fedora is)

You fell for the exact false dichotomy by placing Arch vs Debian. There isnt 2, there is a circle of options, and Debian is not part of the consumer/daily driver circle.