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Re:Why You're Still Single (2023) by earlone on Sunday February 18, 2024 @04:56AM (#39417708)
Yes, plus the 5% getting 10+ dates per year
Re:Why You're Still Single (2023) by stavros on Sunday February 18, 2024 @05:00AM (#39417733)
That graph doesn't say first dates. It's just people dating the same person a lot. Even if it was first dates, that doesn't mean much.

I'd advise you to think about what these things mean, rather than draw wrong conclusions from propaganda.

Re:Why You're Still Single (2023) by earlone on Sunday February 18, 2024 @05:19AM (#39417846)
I'd prefer that you keep your advices for yourself. It seems the american "date" has a different cultural meaning than in other parts of the world where it doesn't exist as such. If you go to Europe and say you "date" 10+ times the same person in a year, you'd be considered as someone desperate. Dating in Europe just refers to the first encounter.
Re:Why You're Still Single (2023) by stavros on Sunday February 18, 2024 @05:47AM (#39418013)
I'm Greek, thanks for the explanation though.
Re:Why You're Still Single (2023) by earlone on Sunday February 18, 2024 @09:13AM (#39419216)
You're welcome
Re:Why You're Still Single (2023) by watwut on Sunday February 18, 2024 @05:47AM (#39418011)
> If you go to Europe and say you "date" 10+ times the same person in a year, you'd be considered as someone desperate. Dating in Europe just refers to the first encounter.

That is not true. In various European languages, the local equivalent of the word date includes settled couples going out together. If you go on date 10 times with the same person, you are considered to be in the beginning stage of the relationship.

10 dates with the same person with frequency of 3 dates a week is three weeks of knowing each other. That is not deep into the relationship yet anyway, it is beginning stage of a romance. Assuming you are looking for a stable relationship rather then hook up.

Re:Why You're Still Single (2023) by earlone on Sunday February 18, 2024 @08:38AM (#39418971)
Yes but tfa is in english, not everyone "dates" the same way.
Re:Why You're Still Single (2023) by watwut on Sunday February 18, 2024 @12:20PM (#39420903)
Yeah but person I responded to argued about "Europe". Unless they meant "in UK" when they wrote "Europe" then they implied other languages.

The article seems to be focused on finding long term relationship. It considers "not single" status to be a success. When you have one night stands, you are considered single.

Re:Why You're Still Single (2023) by earlone on Monday February 19, 2024 @03:42AM (#39427405)
I see, interesting.