Re:The game theory of seduction and marriage with Jane Austen
by HaZeust on Saturday February 17, 2024 @04:15PM
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Indeed. Especially when learning the lay of the dating apps land, and understanding the lowest-common denominators that the most amount of people would bite on.
"Just to look and feel like this, it took a long time"
Re:The game theory of seduction and marriage with Jane Austen
by Spooky23 on Saturday February 17, 2024 @01:03PM
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Totally. You have to do you.
I probably expressed that poorly. “Problem” was the wrong word! It’s probably better to say you’re not finding what you want… but do you know what that is?
Re:The game theory of seduction and marriage with Jane Austen
by oarfish on Sunday February 18, 2024 @03:00AM
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> It took a long time to get good pictures that women found attractive. I went through 100s of different pictures and gathered a lot of feedback (there are websites).
What exactly does that mean? There's services that "rate your profile"?
What do those "good pictures" look like then?
Re:The game theory of seduction and marriage with Jane Austen
by mettamage on Sunday February 18, 2024 @05:00AM
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I wish I could tell you. Every time I upload a picture thinking it is going to be a home run, it would always be a 5 out of 10.
Only 5 pictures made it past the 8 out of 10. I used photofeeler.com
I am a counter example. I liked about 1 in 20 chats. It took 300 matches. I took 100 hours to optimize my profile. I went from 5 matches per month to 150 matches per month. It took a long time to get good pictures that women found attractive. I went through 100s of different pictures and gathered a lot of feedback (there are websites).
The problem isn’t me since I am now in an amazing relationship. It’s okay to be a bit picky, as long as you put in a lot of effort yourself.
I agree with the rest.