Auth0 wasn't perfect (I would've like fewer pages), but it was pretty damn good. I learned a lot there and had one of the best managers of my career there. I also was the only employee in my country for several years and still felt very included. It was telling that I was able to chat with Eugenio myself even as a lowly IC. Okta's main claim to fame seemed to be a great sales team, though your explanation sounds like that wasn't great either.