Were you doing your masters along side your work?
In any case, this is heartening to see. The majority consensus seems to be you can either be a good dad, or pursue lofty goals, but not both because of the time commitment required for each.
TBH I'm looking for successful examples of parent founders (founding when they had a kid, and not when the kids were grown), particularly in the realm of vc backed ventures (even indie would make good examples, but there's a slightly different dynamic). I haven't found any good examples yet, and I don't know if that's because people don't talk about being a parent while pursuing other goals, or its something people don't do,
Re:Ask HN: Advice for a new father?
by twojobsoneboss on Monday February 12, 2024 @11:18PM
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Tbf if you’re going to be quitting your 9-5 I don’t think it’s an issue. But no, I have not seen any _American_ examples of being a good dad + 9-5 + being a successful founder
That makes more sense. I do think if you add a 9-5 to it its nearing impossible.
Re:Ask HN: Advice for a new father?
by twojobsoneboss on Monday February 12, 2024 @11:15PM
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That’s awesome but also a masters is a very different beast than starting a business IMO. It’s pretty defined (even with a thesis, in comparison) whereas trying to start a successful business is constant double guessing, pivoting, hustling when opportunities come by, needing to drop other things when opportunities come by, constantly strategizing/worrying when doing other things, etc
Still, that’s an achievement and kudos
Re:Ask HN: Advice for a new father?
by ndjshe3838 on Tuesday February 13, 2024 @01:17AM
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Some people do have to give up their goals/dreams
Yours just happened to be still doable
I have my second on the way so we'll see if I'm still singing this tune in the fall.
Definitely agree with the remote thing though. I'm in a fully in-office role now and believe my life would be vastly improved if I found a remote role. I'm committed where I'm at for another 18 months and then plan to try my hardest to get into something remote.