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Re:How to Be Someone People Love to Talk to (2015) by PH95VuimJjqBqy on Saturday February 10, 2024 @10:07AM (#39326644)
I somewhat disagree, I think a large part of it is being genuine.
Re:How to Be Someone People Love to Talk to (2015) by imwillofficial on Saturday February 10, 2024 @04:40PM (#39330489)
Nobody loves talking to a genuinely morose person
Re:How to Be Someone People Love to Talk to (2015) by xboxnolifes on Sunday February 11, 2024 @02:24PM (#39337754)
People only like the genuine people they agree with.
Re:How to Be Someone People Love to Talk to (2015) by PH95VuimJjqBqy on Sunday February 11, 2024 @02:45PM (#39337955)
I just had a conversation with someone who disagreed with me on almost every topic. When it was done I thanked them for disagreeing with me civilly.

you're obviously free to believe whatever nonsense you want, but it says more about your lack of social skill than anything approaching a truth.

I go to a D&D group with 2 devout christians, 1 agnostic, 1 atheist, and 1 hindu.

We've all been good friends for probably 15 years at this point. Do you think we all agree?

maybe stop limiting yourself.

Re:How to Be Someone People Love to Talk to (2015) by xboxnolifes on Sunday February 11, 2024 @07:05PM (#39340106)
You specified that they disagreed with you "civilly", which generally means they behaved in a way you agreed with, even if they had differing opinions on non-behavior topics. People still only like genuine people when the genuineness includes behavior they like.
Re:How to Be Someone People Love to Talk to (2015) by PH95VuimJjqBqy on Monday February 12, 2024 @11:59AM (#39347246)
that's not the definition of the word civilly. words have meanings. Generally speaking, when you find yourself redefining the meaning of words it's a strong indicator that your argument is poor.