You don't need to be sorry, you're right. And you're right, I should change my mind, so I will. tbh he was even a bit weird when he dated my sister(so my mother says), but he was very kind to me, so I guess I liked him (my sister is 10 years my senior). Because he was sweet to me when I was young should not be the reason I like him, objectively... he's quite the wanker indeed.