The internet of the 90's and 00's had drama and trolls, but they were few and far between.
Most people had patience (dialup), technical competency, interest (no low effort), and engaged in things they earnestly cared about.
There was no engagement / rage algorithm to fuel fires.
The internet was better when it was smaller, but maybe that's the way it is with anything.
I'm glad more people have access to the Internet. I just wish I had access to that special place again. It's gone.
HN is a shadow of that lost world.
Should we...have a flame war just for old times' sake? Kidding aside, I grew up on BBSes, so small online places is my comfort zone too.
If its any consolation, IMHO the internet has started its next seismic shift: final destruction of the world wide web's rotting corpse. There's no telling where we all end up next. Small communities could make a comeback if we really want them. Exciting times!
This recent one comes to mind, note how the author takes a lot of precautions around it, but still...