Yeah, but that's why you have to veto very carefully someone that you're considering spending the rest of your life with. I mean, how much further are you willing to go just to keep the relationship? What if they want to live somewhere you don't like? What if they want kids and you don't? Etc. etc. And there's nothing wrong with compromise either, as long as you can live with the consequences, and god help you if you misjudge your ability to do so when you make your decision.