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Re:Ask HN: How would you take care of your mental well-being? by giantg2 on Saturday January 13, 2024 @04:28PM (#38984764)
Nah, I've done marriage counseling before. It can help change perspective/mindset, but doesn't change reality. There are always choices, but sometimes the best choice is to just trudge on since all the choices come with a price.
Re:Ask HN: How would you take care of your mental well-being? by NoReg on Saturday January 13, 2024 @05:12PM (#38985159)
Absolutely. Counseling services are very expensive. Changing my perspective/mindset to regulate my emotions is exactly what I used it for. I have been in those emotional moments but the reality needs me to move on quickly. So, I have to reach out to the counselors for a quick solution for the emotion, not changing the realities.
Re:Ask HN: How would you take care of your mental well-being? by giantg2 on Saturday January 13, 2024 @06:26PM (#38985767)
Pretty sure I'm over-regulated.
Re:Ask HN: How would you take care of your mental well-being? by NoReg on Saturday January 13, 2024 @06:40PM (#38985878)
Haha ~~~ See, that is option 1, maybe one session is enough in some life situations.