Where? Can you please quote the victim blaming?

All I see is a claim that harsher drug laws would not have helped this victim.

Also rudeness, but being rude is not victim blaming.

Edit: Pretty please someone explain? Am I missing some obvious implication?

From here it looks like people hate the grandparent comment so much that even incorrect criticism will get treated as true. Which is really bad for a discussion website. I hope I'm wrong about that, but I'm failing to find another way to read things.