Pretending otherwise might get clicks but is doing the people a disservice.
Pretty big if, if you ask me.
I'm personally paying about $1k/month more for relative solitude in an older place with some solitude near a large metropolitan area than I would for a modern apartment in the area. It's worth it not just for the solitude, but for the things not being physically connected, or even really close, to your neighbors' homes provides.
I've tried many of the different lives, and there's nothing better than being in close quarters for me.
For example I really lament never having been able to visit the walled city in Kowloon. For a simple 1 square city block it's pretty legendary, and a huge influence on fiction and culture (Cyberpunk genre for example, ghost in the shell, games like stray, call of duty, etc). I'm sure it was going to collapse sooner or later but I'm sad they completely destroyed it instead of improving it and keeping something unique.
> Many residents of The Hole, long abandoned by the state, find peace in the isolation that The Hole provides.
> Then, he softens as he explains why he stays. “I stay here because it’s quiet. It’s peaceful,” Lopez says. “This place, it’s idyllic.”
My heartfelt respect to Richie Gonzalez for taking care of injured animals.