I'm looking at this one and it seems to cover things that I need (admittedly, without a free tier, but what'reyougonnado). I knew about Okta through people in the security space and that's why I trusted it. I don't see anything on Ory's page that seems to explain the audit work they do, etc. Is this something you are familiar with? Or?

Yes, we're using it in production. However, we have deployed our own stack of it. You don't have to use their service if you don't eant to. It's open source, so in a way there is a free tier to it if you can put some work into deployment.

10/10. Ory is top notch. Using on prem