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Re:Privacy is Priceless, but Signal is Expensive by anjel on Friday November 17, 2023 @03:48AM (#38301059)
The beauty of non profits is everyone thinks they're staffed with saints, when the truth is far less beatific.
Re:Privacy is Priceless, but Signal is Expensive by moravak1984 on Friday November 17, 2023 @05:28AM (#38301686)
Absolutely. A former student of mine worked for a non profit in Afghanistan (his home country) for a few years. Said non profit was flying in McKinsey consultants for very short gigs at six figures (USD).

Same can be said about many LGBT non profits that have shifted their goals in the developed world on the "T" part of the acronym. On countries where marriage equality is a given, no one is going to fund an NGO focused on gay marriage... so they need a new cause to fight for.

Re:Privacy is Priceless, but Signal is Expensive by chx on Friday November 17, 2023 @05:51AM (#38301840)
to me this smells transphobic but it's possible the trans genocide several US states are working on made me oversensitive
Re:Privacy is Priceless, but Signal is Expensive by rengle on Friday November 17, 2023 @06:00AM (#38301893)
Quite odd to consider the safeguarding of children against mutilation and sterilisation, and the protection of women's single-sex spaces, as "genocide". Each to their own, I suppose.
Re:Privacy is Priceless, but Signal is Expensive by chx on Friday November 17, 2023 @06:11AM (#38301956)
> safeguarding of children against mutilation and sterilisation,

I am so, so tired.

None of that happens.

GnRH analogues are commonly used in gender affirming care, these are reversible.

Surgery is not done on minors.

> the protection of women's single-sex spaces,

Predatory men have absolutely no problems finding opportunities to predate on women. This made up crap need not happen.

You are parroting sound bites on issues you have no understanding of. For the sake of humanity, literally, please stop and start reading. You are on a very dark path.

Re:Privacy is Priceless, but Signal is Expensive by rengle on Friday November 17, 2023 @06:35AM (#38302127)
> Surgery is not done on minors.

Sadly, this is not true. See for example this paper on 'gender-affirming' mastectomies, where the cohort included girls as young as 12 years old: https://journals.lww.com/annalsplasticsurgery/Abstract/2022/...

Also this article from Reuters on rates of 'gender-affirming treatment' in children, from health insurance data, which shows that girls as young as 13 are receiving 'top surgery': https://www.reuters.com/investigates/special-report/usa-tran...

> Predatory men have absolutely no problems finding opportunities to predate on women.

Exactly, any male who disregards women's boundaries and imposes himself on a female-only space is exhibiting predatory behaviour by ignoring the lack of consent. Those males who call themselves women are no exception to this.

Re:Privacy is Priceless, but Signal is Expensive by chx on Friday November 17, 2023 @07:14AM (#38302464)
Trans women are not males who call themselves women, though.

If you insist they are , that's denial of trans existence and that's the road to genocide.

Trans women are not males who call themselves women, though.

If you insist they are , that's denial of trans existence and that's the road to genocide.

Apparently I was wrong on top surgeries. I will be more careful with phrasing then. However, sterilization (aka genital surgery) still is not a thing.

Re:Privacy is Priceless, but Signal is Expensive by rengle on Friday November 17, 2023 @01:13PM (#38307541)
> Trans women are not males who call themselves women, though.

They are male, by definition. If they were female then they would actually be women, rather than men trying to mimic women - which is the reality of 'trans existence' for these males.

They really have no business imposing themselves in female-only spaces. Rejecting this form of male entitlement and keeping them excluded from these spaces that are not for them isn't 'genocide' by any means. That is sheer hyperbole.

> However, sterilization (aka genital surgery) still is not a thing.

Genital surgery for minors is rarer but it actually a thing that happens. For example, reality television victim Jazz Jennings was sterilised at 17 years old.

Here's another male who had his surgery at 16: https://metro.co.uk/2019/12/29/transgender-teen-who-began-tr...

And another: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/fb-6329525/WHO-JACKIE-GRE...

Re:Privacy is Priceless, but Signal is Expensive by SamoyedFurFluff on Friday November 17, 2023 @08:16AM (#38303059)
Idk man, I think this shit should be between the trans person and their doctor. We already pierce the ears and rip the foreskin off babies, and minors can get boob jobs and nose jobs already. Minors get all manner of drugs prescribed. If a doctor thinks some treatment is appropriate for a kid, okay. If it turns out to be medical malpractice we have the court system for that.

Also, I disagree that men in women’s bathrooms is inherently predatory. Frankly, this discriminates against fathers of young children because often one has to bring a daughter into the bathroom or change their infants diaper. Also, the bathroom thing is super weird, like how are you gonna enforce this in a non imposing, non disregarding of boundary way? Already butch women experience harassment for not performing femininity, and there’s news articles where nosy weirdos harass them in bathrooms…

Re:Privacy is Priceless, but Signal is Expensive by rengle on Friday November 17, 2023 @02:18PM (#38308607)
> Also, I disagree that men in women's bathrooms is inherently predatory. Frankly, this discriminates against fathers of young children because often one has to bring a daughter into the bathroom or change their infants diaper.

I don't agree with you on this, in almost all circumstances they should be using the bathroom appropriate for the sex of the adult, which in this case is the male one. If there genuinely is no baby changing facility available that isn't in the ladies' bathroom then for the welfare of the child an exception can be made, but the father needs to check with the women using this space first.

This scenario is very different to the males who feel entitled to use women's spaces whenever they please and for their own satisfaction, rather than to provide for their child as in your example.

> Also, the bathroom thing is super weird, like how are you gonna enforce this in a non imposing, non disregarding of boundary way?

All that's really being asked for is for males to understand that female spaces are not theirs, to voluntarily refrain from entering, and to acknowledge that women have the right to have violators expelled.

The problem is that far too many males truly cannot conceive of the idea of simply respecting the space and boundaries of women. It literally doesn't cross their minds, so they immediately jump to whether or not women can forcibly stop them. The belief seems to be that if a woman cannot enforce this, they may take anything they like from her with impunity.

Perhaps that's not the connotation you intended, at least not consciously, when you wrote 'how are you gonna enforce this'. But I believe this form of male entitlement is what this implies, even with the best of intentions.

Re:Privacy is Priceless, but Signal is Expensive by SamoyedFurFluff on Saturday November 18, 2023 @11:41AM (#38321370)
“How are you gonna enforce this when it primarily harasses the women you claim to protect” isn’t a male claim, lol

Also don’t assume my gender here

Re:Privacy is Priceless, but Signal is Expensive by rengle on Sunday November 19, 2023 @04:40AM (#38330934)
Like I said in my last comment, if you're thinking about female-only spaces only in terms of how women can forcibly stop men from entering, then you're looking at this from the perspective of male entitlement rather than considering women's needs. How about the males just respect women's spaces, and stop trying to convert every female-only space into a mixed-sex space? Every time a so-called "trans woman" disrespects the space and boundaries of women for his own selfish pleasures, he's adding to this problem. It really shows how little these men actually understand and empathise with women, when they're exhibiting this dominance behaviour.

Also, some female-only spaces can be and are enforced by authorities with the resources to do so, for example prisons. It is well understood by most people that prisons need to be separated by sex for the safety and dignity of female inmates. The problem is that in some places, women's prisons have been incarcerating men who say they have a "female gender identity" in there too. There have been numerous cases of these men raping, sexually assaulting and even impregnating the women they have been imprisoned with. It is appalling and shows exactly why women need single-sex spaces away from these predators.

> Also, frankly banning fathers from protecting their daughters in bathrooms and changing their diapers is discriminatory. There's nothing predatory about a dad changing his infants diaper and it's utterly disgusting to portray it as such. This is precisely the gender discrimination we should be fighting against as a civilized society.

No, what is needed in this case are baby changing facilities in male and gender-neutral spaces. Not carte blanche access to female-only spaces by men.

Also please actually read my comments before responding. In no way did I say or even imply that a father changing his child's nappy is predatory. I believe it's a good thing when fathers are more involved in child care than is traditionally the case. You are railing against an argument you invented inside your own mind.

Re:Privacy is Priceless, but Signal is Expensive by SamoyedFurFluff on Sunday November 19, 2023 @08:18PM (#38340868)
Nah you said Carte Blanche anyone male in such a space is predatory, including dad changing diapers and trans women peeing not talking to anyone. You’re also still not addressing the fundamental fact that women who have never experienced male puberty experience far, far more abuse by other nosey weirdos trying to get into their genitalia just because they don’t perform the sort of femininity demanded to enforce who gets to take a piss in the McDonald’s.
Re:Privacy is Priceless, but Signal is Expensive by rengle on Sunday November 19, 2023 @09:29PM (#38341449)
No, this is what I said:

> Exactly, any male who disregards women's boundaries and imposes himself on a female-only space is exhibiting predatory behaviour by ignoring the lack of consent. Those males who call themselves women are no exception to this.

Then it was you who brought up this unlikely scenario:

> I disagree that men in women's bathrooms is inherently predatory. Frankly, this discriminates against fathers of young children because often one has to bring a daughter into the bathroom or change their infants diaper.

To which I replied with the following, consistent with my earlier comment in that the father needs to ensure that if such a rare and urgent scenario should arise, he receives consent from the women present and to ensure he isn't disregarding boundaries and imposing himself:

> I don't agree with you on this, in almost all circumstances they should be using the bathroom appropriate for the sex of the adult, which in this case is the male one. If there genuinely is no baby changing facility available that isn't in the ladies' bathroom then for the welfare of the child an exception can be made, but the father needs to check with the women using this space first.

> This scenario is very different to the males who feel entitled to use women's spaces whenever they please and for their own satisfaction, rather than to provide for their child as in your example.

Of course the best option is that baby changing facilities are provided in unisex or male-only spaces too, which is often the case these days.

As for this part of your comment:

> You're also still not addressing the fundamental fact that women who have never experienced male puberty experience far, far more abuse by other nosey weirdos trying to get into their genitalia just because they don't perform the sort of femininity demanded to enforce who gets to take a piss in the McDonald's.

Firstly, there are no women who have experienced male puberty. The people who experience male puberty are boys and then men.

Secondly, this isn't a "fundamental fact", it's something you're claiming because you want to try to justify the invasion of women's spaces by men who pretend to be women.

Thirdly, I see you're still narrowly focusing on bathrooms and are ignoring the growing problem of these men demanding and gaining access to other spaces that were female-only up until their incursion. Any comment on, as I discussed above, that in some jurisdictions these men are being incarcerated in the female prison estate, and how harmful this has been for women prisoners?

Re:Privacy is Priceless, but Signal is Expensive by lannisterstark on Friday November 17, 2023 @12:03PM (#38306362)
How is it transphobic to say organizations focused on LGBTQ shifted their alignment for the one part that isn't widely accepted in developed because others for the most part are?
Re:Privacy is Priceless, but Signal is Expensive by dragonwriter on Friday November 17, 2023 @12:10PM (#38306473)
Its a transphobic conspiracy theory to say, as moravak1984 explicitly did upthread, that they did it for money not because its an actual real issue where they perceive an injustice, whereas the issues where they've already won, and thus are shifting some attention from, are not, or less so, specifically because they have succeeded in shifting the situation on the ground.
Re:Privacy is Priceless, but Signal is Expensive by Ferret7446 on Friday November 17, 2023 @08:17PM (#38313555)
Why is it transphobic? Is it not possible for an organization to do something for money? I am not accusing any particular organization of doing so, but it absolutely should be a legitimate concern/question.

In fact, I would consider it transphobic to not call out organizations with ulterior motives.

Re:Privacy is Priceless, but Signal is Expensive by chx on Saturday November 18, 2023 @06:43AM (#38318386)
The reply to my suspicion from the same person was so transphobic it got removed. I can smell these people from a mile away. Fragments of it survive in https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=38301956
Re:Privacy is Priceless, but Signal is Expensive by chx on Saturday November 18, 2023 @04:07AM (#38317218)
The reply to my suspicion was so transphobic it got removed. I can smell these people from a mile away. Fragments of it survive in https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=38301956
Re:Privacy is Priceless, but Signal is Expensive by rengle on Saturday November 18, 2023 @11:48AM (#38321460)
My reply was calling out your ridiculous and hyperbolic claims of "genocide", and examining the reality behind the euphemism.