What I don’t get is why you would want to spend half of your waking hours, even remotely, working with people on a team whose company you don’t enjoy? The conclusion I would draw is that I’m on the wrong team or at the wrong company, and then switch as quickly as possible.
I enjoy my friends, yet I don't want to spend 8 hours a day, 5 days a week in sitting 1 meter away from them.
It's a job, it's IT, it's easy, it's well paid, as long I don't have a literal archnemesis annoying me every day I literally don't care who I work with. Not everyone has the luxury to quit a job and find a new one right away, especially in the current climate
I'd much rather spend that time with people I chose. Some you of you borderline sound like you're suffering from Stockholm syndrome