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Re:A Man. A Woman. Just Friends? by bdunbar on Monday April 09, 2012 @10:31AM (#3817095)
People gather lots of acquaintances but no or few good friends.

This is not the norm, in my experience.

Worth noting that America is a big place, with lots of variety. You know this of course.

I can see what you describe being the norm in a large city. Where I live now - small town, middle of inner-nowhere - it's not.

Re:A Man. A Woman. Just Friends? by ArtB on Monday April 09, 2012 @10:53AM (#3817185)
> I can see what you describe being the norm in a large city. Where I live now - small town, middle of inner-nowhere - it's not.

Not to be an ass, but to recap your "rebuttal": in the places which are dying this isn't the case, but I could see it happening in the places that are becoming increasingly prevalent and important it might be.

I think the change is undeniable, you're just in one of the last places that will get hit.

Re:A Man. A Woman. Just Friends? by bdunbar on Monday April 09, 2012 @11:01AM (#3817224)
in the places which are dying

In what sense do you mean 'dying'? 'Prevalent and important'?

Re:A Man. A Woman. Just Friends? by ArtB on Monday April 09, 2012 @11:43AM (#3817447)
Wealth creation seems to be focussed increasingly on metropolitan areas and the rural manufacturing and farming areas seem to be going through population decline.
Re:A Man. A Woman. Just Friends? by bdunbar on Monday April 09, 2012 @12:09PM (#3817582)
rural manufacturing and farming areas seem to be going through population decline.

I will allow this is the case for some areas. It it not universally true.

It sure isn't where I live.

Re:A Man. A Woman. Just Friends? by ArtB on Monday April 09, 2012 @01:13PM (#3817929)
Maybe you are in a real anomaly, but whenever we leave the city, once we get pass commuting distance the number of For Sale signs is astounding (sometimes like 10% of a town or hamlet) while in the city housing is booming.
Re:A Man. A Woman. Just Friends? by bdunbar on Monday April 09, 2012 @03:49PM (#3818869)
I don't think I live in an anomaly.

Statewide statistics here: http://www.bls.gov/eag/eag.wi.htm

I live in this met region: http://www.bls.gov/eag/eag.wi_oshkosh_msa.htm