It's no problem creating a weird workaround for the other 1/1000 items.
Just stop
You mean like iPhone's Control Center, which is a pull up? There's a large, very clear screen brightness widget...
> Meanwhile, my husband as never been able to locate any of these in an iPhone without the help of this thread.
Aside from the fact that I believe night shift is on by default:
You long press the screen brightness slider (long presses are a common UI function...) and boom, there's two buttons for dark mode and night shift, and below night shift it says "off until (time here")
Or you can type in "night" into the system-wide search and "night shift" pops up as an option?
Or you can google "night mode iphone"?
Your husband being completely helpless isn't the fault of iOS.
For years I've had "make the screen red" as a shortcut to three home button rapid presses.
> Apple products just make no sense to me.
I'm using an iPhone that cost me $300 used when I bought it several years ago, is now six years old, was until a month or so fully supported OS-wise and will continue to get security updates for another year or two, and is plenty fast enough for everything I do. Airdrop is incredibly handy, almost daily, and has no equivalent on the Android side. It backs up automatically to my mac any time it's on wifi and has power, also no equivalent on Android. I have a ton of the data collection turned off in the privacy tab. Half my apps don't know my real email address because I use Apple's email proxy service. iOS integrates nicely with my open-source self-hosted file sync and my open-source password database. The apps on my device collect a lot less data about me, and my device is not incessantly reporting everything it can to Google.
The battery is original and has 75% of its capacity, and battery life is generally excellent. Not a single component in the phone has needed replacement / worn out. The screen is great. The speakers are great. Reception is great. Facetime audio calls are really pleasant with a couple of friends compared to regular phone calls. It never crashes. The Lightning jack still works perfectly, for example - and I don't bother with wireless charging most of the time.
I get that it's nice to prop up one's ego thinking that you're *so much smarter than millions of people who are willing to pay a premium for something, or you can accept that there's a reason people make a choice other than what you do, that they might be different reasons, different priorities, etc.