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Re:'It's quite soul-destroying': how we fell out of love wit... by scarface_74 on Sunday October 29, 2023 @11:48AM (#38059677)
Yes that’s true. Dating wasn’t that great for me in my 20s - five foot four, decent job, in great shape physically (part time fitness instructor), somewhat outgoing.

Got married at 28 to someone who was physically attractive. But had nothing much going for her and divorced at 32.

Dating was somewhat better then. But didn’t really want anything serious and had close female friends who I travelled with and really gave me the emotional support and no drama.

I got remarried at 36 and have been happily married for 13 years.

That being said, short men do have what I call the “two strikes rule”. You can’t be short and anything. Meaning short and fat, broke, ugly, bad personality, etc. I fought the and part

Re:'It's quite soul-destroying': how we fell out of love wit... by boppo1 on Monday October 30, 2023 @12:56AM (#38065844)
5'7 here. Can't imagine 5'4. Good work.