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Re:Pretty good career and life advice by badpun on Wednesday October 04, 2023 @02:31AM (#37761571)
Is the alcohol really necessary? Any social relation that requires alcohol to continue does seem low value.
Re:Pretty good career and life advice by kaffekaka on Wednesday October 04, 2023 @03:22AM (#37761923)
You can absolutely drink alcohol by yourself.
Re:Pretty good career and life advice by achenet on Wednesday October 04, 2023 @05:50AM (#37762940)
maybe not alcohol, but many of my closet friendships, which are probably the greatest sources of joy in my life (maybe romantic relationships come close), were formed around shared intoxication - weed, LSD, 2C-B, MDMA, Ketamine...

now obviously the relation has moved beyond that, we're very happy hanging out sober, and generally spend the vast majority of our time together sober, but getting intoxicated with someone is actually a good bonding mechanism.