It's better that they not have kittens, than their kittens be born and starve to death.
With people, it takes even longer and more suffering to die of poverty than one first winter.
I'll go a step further and share my personal belief that no one should have kids.
Children, while traditional, are nevertheless (and this fact seems to be inconvenient to many) optional. Every human has the choice available to them to not have children.
Children a century ago had a high likelihood of dying before they were 5. Now, that risk is greatly diminished.
At the same time, the standard of living has greatly increased across the board for rich and poor.
I am sorry that you had a bad childhood. Future generations of children, even the poor will have it better.
> Children a century ago had a high likelihood of dying before they were 5. Now, that risk is greatly diminished.
I think our misunderstanding of each other comes from having different standards of what's considered good for child and what not.
> I am sorry that you had a bad childhood. Future generations of children, even the poor will have it better.
I never said that I had a bad childhood.
Someone who didn’t grow up poor will never understand this.