You are the one misrepresenting risks. In addition to what other person said, majority of homicides is among people who know each there - people killing their own partners, families, friends, business associates and partners in crime.

Please don't post in the flamewar style (e.g. low-information / high-indignation comments or putdowns). We're trying for something else here.

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