Self-determination is a core principle of international law, people arguing against it are almost always repeating propaganda points.
Arguably, the core principle of international law is, "everyone's got some slice of the planet, now let us all agree that past is past, and stick to the borders as they are now, so we can all focus on something more useful and mutually beneficial, instead of continuing to spend blood to adjust them". Attempts to change borders, or to create or remove countries, are quite a big deal.
Self-determination at the level of the existing countries is a core principle, not the individual: that's literally the reason we formed international law.
It didn't start as small scale fighting over borders in the Donbas.
The large scale invasion from leased bases in Crimea occurred in 2014.
This is that kind of nitpicking where you just make yourself seem lost in the conversation by taking an argumentative tone: Crimea and Donbas are both just examples of my point that pining for a world where borders are seen as flexible and flowing isn't really logical. Arguing that they were even larger just furthers my point.
We're in a fully globalized world. Things are past the stage where anyone besides large countries looking to bully will actually be able to move borders and keep them there. It doesn't really take propaganda to understand why that is: just looking at the current world is enough.
It seems especially tone-deaf calling it propaganda when we're currently experiencing how it usually plays out with what started as a small scale conflict over borders in "Donbas".