> even if you spend years arguing it doesn't necessarily lead to the democratic results you want

Yes, this is how democracy works in general. You don't get everything (or necessarily anything) you want

Personally the only thing that would really make me quit is if they tried to make me go hybrid or back to the office in any way. My workplace is small (10 engineers) and so unionizing based on that could be pretty easy, but it would be easier for me to quit and find a new job that does do remote