What about the civic sense of proving that great electric cars can be made at a profit, space launch costs can be cut 90%, and Starlink can enable communications by people who live under oppression?
Doesn't actually doing things that matter to the human race matter far more than saying comforting words and avoiding giving offense?
Of the things you've highlighted, Starlink has perhaps the strongest case for being evidence of civic sense. But that case is a potential one; in practice, Starlink (and Musk's vision) has yet to impress[1][2].
[1]: https://www.pbs.org/newshour/economy/elon-musks-refusal-to-p...
[2]: https://www.space.com/starlink-electronics-hum-disturbs-radi...
I recommend you read a biography of Musk.
He makes his electric car patents freely available, to advance the transition to electric cars. He started SpaceX with the purpose of making humans a multi-planetary species. He's repeatedly bet his entire fortune on these goals.
He's civic minded where it counts. And he's delivered results.
As for business acumen, he takes financial risks any other businessman would consider to be insane.
Hard to get more civic-minded than that.
That's not a quality that's worth celebrating, regardless of how much innovation he might enable. We can and should expect better of people, especially extraordinarily wealthy and powerful ones.