To put things into perspective, it sounds like most of your complaints are mostly from the point of view as a consumer, but what you like about them is that they enable you as a creator, being given access to modify FOSS, making it easy to create apps or as a responsible member of society, not complying with CCP, allowing ad blockers.

If you ask me, the latter are infinitely more important than the first thing.

Now, I will grant that Google also does a lot more to complain about.