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Re:Ask HN: How to handle Asian-style “Family name first” whe... by jacquesm on Thursday August 31, 2023 @05:02AM (#37334356)
It's interesting how in Germany there is so much accent on titles. Every country has their own interface standards and it is always educational to dig in to that for a bit to get acquainted with the local customs so you don't end up making some kind of faux pas. And sometimes those standards are very fluid, someone calling you 'Sir' may do so in a mildly sarcastic manner to get the point across, they don't necessarily believe you to have been knighted. And some people use access to their given name(s) as something to be granted explicitly, even though the company phone book spells out their first name and others are equally offended when you address them by their family name.

It's a minefield!

Re:Ask HN: How to handle Asian-style “Family name first” whe... by rob74 on Thursday August 31, 2023 @05:37AM (#37334623)
Actually, the stereotype among Germans is that Austrians are even more fond of their titles, although I think that has decreased in both countries in the last decades.

The "addressing people by their first name and using Du instead of Sie" is indeed handled very differently in different companies. I consider myself lucky to work for a company where "Du" and first name is the rule, so I don't have to keep an internal list of colleagues which I can use "Du" with...

Re:Ask HN: How to handle Asian-style “Family name first” whe... by mejutoco on Thursday August 31, 2023 @05:31AM (#37334579)
> It's interesting how in Germany there is so much accent on titles.

Seeing all the title drop down when subscribing to the economist (UK) made it clear to me it is a thing there too, at least in some circles.

Re:Ask HN: How to handle Asian-style “Family name first” whe... by resolutebat on Thursday August 31, 2023 @07:11AM (#37335392)
Sir-itis is particularly endemic to the Philippines, in no small part thanks to call center scripts. At one point we had a company driver who insisted (quite seriously, no sarcasm involved) on calling his passengers Sir Firstname.
Re:Ask HN: How to handle Asian-style “Family name first” whe... by rescbr on Thursday August 31, 2023 @10:58AM (#37338201)
I'd rather say it comes from the Spanish Don, as it is used not as a title but in formal occasions, together with the given name.