No offense, I appreciate the idea, but I'm not looking for suggestions. I only posted this here as an example of how the system is failing even for people with high quality insurance.

And I appreciate your story and empathize, which is why I am ensuring both you and others reading your story remember that folks finding themselves in your situation have rights that are less commonly exercised.

But I appreciate that it's a tough topic and not engage further. Good luck with it.