Modern heat pumps in Japan with inverter is just fine with 100V or 200V for home, even for cheaper coolers. 200V hear pump electrical water heater (with tank) too.
Most houses sign up only up to 6kW or 10kW electricity, so EV charger will become a problem for family that has multiple EVs, but they will be fine with slower charging at night in most cases.
It's pain that common 100V ovens works poorly. 100V Washer dryer works barely okay thanks to efficiency.
Obviously 100V would be terrible for high power stuff. I'm not suggesting that. But, 240V split-phase is more than sufficient for the vast majority of residential appliances, including EV charging.
They do too. You have lower current intensity, lower cable diameter, lower losses.
For EV charger it is even more relevant because anything inverter based has (theorically) a better efficiency in a three phases system.
The only drawback of three phase power is currently the cabling complexity. The home electrical panel need to be careful of the phases's balance.
Regarding EVs... I would assume that depends on the design. No EV sold in north america is even capable of being charged off 3-phase AC anyways, so it would require quite the redesign.
You can add: Heat pump, electrical water heater, well pump, ovens.
I lived in both Europe (400V) and Japan (100V).
In Europe I do have an EV charging station 3-phase power with 22KW capacity at home. It does not requires anything special in term of cabling.
And it is enough to reload a Tesla in 4-5 hours, it makes EV ownership a lot easier.
Doing that with the 100V power-grid Japan is simply impossible. Most grid operator will refuse to connect 3 phases power to individuals.